Sexual intimacy requires that all participants consent to the activity. Consent between two or more people is defined as an affirmative agreement--through clear actions or words--to engage in sexual activity. The person giving the consent must act freely, voluntarily, and with an understanding of his or her actions when giving the consent. Lack of protest or resistance does not constitute consent, nor does silence mean consent has been given. Relying solely on non-verbal communication can lead to misunderstanding. Persons who want to engage in the sexual activity are responsible for obtaining consent--it should never be assumed. A prior relationship or prior sexual activity is not sufficient to demonstrate consent.
Consent must be present throughout the sexual activity--at any time, a participant can communicate that he or she no longer consents to continuing the activity. If there is confusion as to whether anyone has consented or continues to consent to sexual activity, it is essential that the participants stop the activity until the confusion can be clearly resolved.
NOT SAYING “NO” DOESN’T MEAN “YES.”
Watch Video: What is Consent?
Can two-minutes and a smart phone change the way you (or your students) think about consent?
This video, originally created as part of Campus Clarity's award-winning online training program, Think About It, teaches the concept of consent by considering a series of realistic scenarios in an approachable manner.
Sex and consent is a difficult issue, mainly because something that seems so simple is continually ‘misunderstood’ in rape cases.
Thames Valley Police have highlighted the issue by promoting a cartoon comparing sex to a well known British pastime – drinking a cup of tea. The result is this simple, effective and at times quite funny video, which gives clear instructions as to what constitutes as sexual consent.
Watch Video: CONSENT - It's as Simple as Tea